Thoughts on Sedaris

 Victoria Sabatino 

Dr. Ellis 

Humor 

Feb. 8 

Reflection on Sedaris 

In this reflection, I want to talk about, “The Incomplete Quad”. Before I even begin to make points, I would just like to say that I do not think Sedaris was a good caregiver, and no one should take advantage of those who are disabled. However, that being said, I do think Sedaris brought a humorous aspect to caregiving that is not often explored. From experience, I can say it is not as serious as people think it to be; and I find it quite funny at times. I think this is because people have a perceived idea about what it means to be disabled, so they assume they have no fun and that their lives are miserable. In fact, they live life like most, cruising along until something miserable happens and they have to backtrack. Sure, there are serious moments like cleaning up after a bathroom accident, but as Irby would say ‘shit happens’, and you go about your day. I think Sedaris was right in implying that you are able to form a close relationship with those you are taking care of, and they have trust in you unlike any other. 

This moves into my other point that I think Sedaris attempts to highlight- caregivers do not have to be ‘good’ people. I cannot tell you the number of times someone has looked at me and said, “Wow, you are such a good person”, or “I could never imagine doing that,” when I explain to them what I do/want to do in the future. First of all, you do not know me, I could be the most terrible person outside of my job, and second of all, you can’t imagine treating someone with the dignity and respect a human deserves? Maybe I really am a good person and should just take the compliment. But I also see it as a job and a calling. For example, when I see an accountant, I thank god I never have to do that, and that they are able to do my taxes for me, but I don’t react in a way that causes a human rights issue.


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