New Kid

New Kid depicts the undeniable realities and discomforts of being in a new or unfamiliar environment. Although I have never been the new kid or struggled with being a minority in spaces that are primarily white, wealthy individuals, I am familiar with the sense of discomfort or aloneness that Jordan experiences as the New Kid. Every time I have made a significant transition, it has taken me a reasonable period to feel comfortable and have a sense of belonging. I am a junior here at Loyola and have only begun to feel stable in my position here as a student. It is undeniably frustrating and aggravating that no forces other than my concessions dictate this discomfort. 

Jordan manages this unknowing and discomfort pretty well and talks to other people about what he is going through. However, it is especially hard for him because only a few people in RAD are in the same position as him, so others need help understanding. It is also complex with Jordan's parents because they have conflicting opinions on the value of this school and whether this discomfort is necessary. Jordan's mother believes that "this will open up new doors . colleges, networking. Opportunities that you and I never had" (97). Although jordans dad quit his high-paid job because he felt out of place and underrepresented in his job. Struggling with identity in a new environment that is not the most inclusive can be challenging and harmful to an individual's self-esteem, constantly feeling unheard or pushed to the side just because the way you look does not represent most people in that environment. This feeling is incredibly isolating. 


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